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Conscious Uncoupling relationship coach

Conscious Uncoupling relationship coach

Emerge out of unhealthy relationships

once and for all

with your own private Conscious Uncoupling™ relationship coach

River del Llano Conscious Uncoupling relationship coach


River del Llano is the only Conscious Uncoupling coach with decades of experience as a family law attorney


"Emotional trauma is the root cause of almost all chronic illness."

~ Dr. Raphael Kellman, MD.

Are you in a painful breakup or divorce?  Or grieving a past breakup?

Heartache. Loneliness. Anger. Resentment. Confusion. Losing sleep. Eating poorly. Finding it hard or impossible to focus on tasks. Children upset or acting out. ... Do any of these sound familiar? 

Loneliness is the number one health problem in America.  Individuals who are socially isolated have weaker immune systems, increased inflammation, and greater risk of viral infection and other disease.  Social isolation can result in altered genetic expression in our brain cells, lymph nodes, breast tissue, ovaries and prostate.  

Why live with any of this when there is a better way?

The groundbreaking Conscious Uncoupling coaching program, created by marriage and family therapist Katherine Woodward Thomas, will lead you from heartache to wholeness in 5 simple and highly transformative steps.

Based on Katherine's New York Times Bestseller, Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After, How to Break Up in a Whole New Way, this program will help you find relief from breakup pain, reclaim your personal power, and create your "happily even after" life.  This celebrated method, made famous by a beautiful actress and her talented musician former husband, has already helped thousands transform their sorrow into strength and their pain into newfound power.

In Just 6 Sessions

  • consciously and honorably uncouple from your partner
  • experience a reprieve from breakup trauma and overwhelming heart pain
  • rediscover your worthiness to love and be loved
  • be free from resentment 
  • evolve beyond habitual disappointing patterns in love
  • awaken your power to create happier and healthier patterns in love moving forward


The 5 Steps

  • Step One  Find Emotional Freedom
  • Step Two  Reclaim Your Power and Your Life
  • Step Three  Break the Pattern, Heal Your Heart
  • Step Four  Become a Love Alchemist
  • Step Five  Create Your Happily Even After Life

Why not just take your partner to court and get it over with?

Is the court system equipped to help your family find a peaceful transition?  Not even close.  After witnessing serious flaws in the family court system for over 20 years, River knows family court is the worst place you could go to solve relationship issues.  

Attorneys are trained to debate. Most law schools never train attorneys on problem solving. Often the first question your family law attorney will ask is “what’s wrong with your spouse/co­parent?” immediately focusing on the negatives.
Judges are trained to listen to evidence that meets strict ­admissibility standards (which means there is always a lot they never know) from two sides who are in an insanely expensive show­down, trying to show the worst sides of one another in a cut­throat, winner ­takes ­all, style competition.

The system is not set up to accommodate healing.  At the end of a court process, a few financial issues and kid ­schedule issues may be “ordered” for your family but what about all the other issues? Totally unresolved!  Plus the court process leaves everyone emotionally drained if not seriously traumatized.

There is a better way.  Save thousands and thousands of dollars on legal fees.  After you complete the Conscious Uncoupling process, you will be emotionally equipped to resolve your issues outside the court system, hiring an attorney to simply draw up any necessary legal agreements and have them signed by a court if necessary.

Why not just go to therapy?

Coaching is partnering with you in a thought ­provoking way and creative process that inspires you to maximize your personal and professional potential. A coach believes you are naturally creative and resourceful. A coach provides support to enhance the skills, resources, and creativity that you already have. (  Coaching has as its goal the flourishing and thriving of your full potential.

Psychotherapy is oriented toward pathology, psychological disorders and trauma, while coaching focuses on achievement and the fulfillment of goals. Psychotherapy deals more with dysfunction, and emotional and behavioral problems, focuses more on the past or disruptive problems and has as its goal the objective of bringing you to normal functioning.  

Coaching is for functioning people who want to move toward their highest potential. (Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist for 30 years. ) 

Some differences between coaching and psychotherapy: 

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Conscious Uncoupling

Every time you choose love over fear.

Every time you choose to be generative rather than reactionary.

Every time you listen, see, and hear your partner rather than assume you know what they are about to say.

You are a relationship revolutionary.